Today is my daughter’s first birthday

            Today is my daughter’s 1st birthday. Let me start off by saying that I am an avid gamer. I was hooked the moment I first played Frogger and Pitfall on the Atari 2600 as a small child. I had a NES, SNES, Genesis, N64, Xbox, and a 360. Wolfenstein 3D was the first FPS I beat. Dragon Warrior (Quest) was the first RPG I beat. Street Fighter 2 was the first Fighting game I mastered. My favorite game of all time is a tie between:

            Fallout – it was the first game that spoke to me as an adult.

            Virtua Fighter – it was the first and only game I was able to straight up hustle people at in the arcades.

Oblivion – it was the first game I ever watched my wife play through to completion.

            I LOVE listening to video game podcasts. I listened for the ENTIRE runs of 1up Yours, The Brodeo, and EGM Live*, and 1up FM. I am (or was) a huge fan of Rebel FM, Listen UP, Out of the Game, Geekbox, Gamespy Debriefings, and A Life Well Wasted.

            Today is my daughter’s first birthday and I have decided to give up gaming. While I still love video games and will proudly refer to myself as a gamer, it’s time for me to stop. I’ve decided not to spend another minute playing games or listening to podcasts that could be spent with her or my wife. Today is my daughter’s 1st birthday and while it’s been an amazing year, it went too fast. Life has been good. I have a good job, exciting prospects, an absolutely beautiful family, and we are in the middle a modern gaming/entertainment renaissance. But a lot of time I spent making Trials tracks could have been spent interacting more closely with my wife and daughter. The late nights I spent wandering the Capitol wasteland with Dogmeat I could have spent sleeping to wake up earlier with my family.

            I’ll never get that time back.

            I had so much fun gaming last year, but the time I spent with my wife and daughter were the only achievement points I scored that mean anything to me right now. If my daughter ever wants to play games I’ll play them with her. If I have free time to myself, I’ll spend it staying in shape, reading books, or watching movies.

            So I just wanted to say “Thanks”. To all my favorite podcasters and fellow gamers. It’s been a good game. Have fun. :)

 

 

Chuck Diamond

Comments (9)
You might be surprised how much time you and your daughter can spend playing games together. I have some great memories of playing games with both of my parents (my mom and I played Ms. Pacman and my dad and I play sports games). In fact my parents and I still play games together now that I'm in college. My mom recently called me for the sole purpose of telling me that she beat a section of Peggle. I guess I'm just trying to say that you can't count gaming out as a bonding expereince.
Happy Birthday to Your Little Gamer. My daughter will turn 5 yr old later this month. She is a Gamer if I have ever seen it. So Don't give up gaming or she may just take up something other then gaming. I know my gaming has gotten her into games more by her watching me then me not doing it.
Nothing is as important than spending time with family, and if you feel that video games are taking you away from that then you are making the right choice Chuck. Your daughter will be grown before you know it, and like you said - you cannot get that time back. When she is 4 or 5 just be sure to get her into gaming, like Rachel and Toby suggested, and that way she can have great memories with her dedicated Daddy AND video games! She is a lucky girl! :)
@Lance I always tried to game with my daughter when she was really young. She was holding controllers while I was playing and she thought she was doing great. 8)
A very happy birthday to your daughter, Chuck!
@Toby - I have enjoyed reading your forays into gaming with your daughter, but I think a one-year old is too young for such a thing. Let's hope when Chuck's daughter is 2 or 3 he will follow your lead.
I applaud you for putting your family first. I personally cut back a great deal when my son was born, but I still game in moderation. I just make sure all of my responsibilities are met first, and I typically game only when he is sleeping. Of course, it helps that my wife is a gamer too. :)
congrats Chuck! :D
Congrats to your daughter, Chuck! I hope you come back to Bitmob now and then to keep up with what's going on in the video game world.
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