How Battlefield 3 reminds one player of a lost love

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Sunday, September 09, 2012
EDITOR'S NOTEfrom Eduardo Moutinho

Games can be powerful vehicles for nostalgia. For me, just hearing the twangy goodness of a Sega Genesis title can transport me back in time. And for people like Jonathan, a certain level coupled with just the right soundtrack can have the same effect.

Battlefield 3

Ever since I first paired a '90s rock playlist with my Battlefield 3 matches, I started thinking about my old friends. I can't help but think of a particular high-school friend I met at a Christian camp.

Somehow, Battlefield 3 and grunge rock made me reminisce about my first romance.

I really didn't intend to fall in love with someone at a silly campsite. The wilderness environment of that place stirred up a lot of emotions inside of me, however. On top of that, a girl I met there just happened to love the same music that I listened to.

 

I guess grunge rock has a strange, nostalgic effect on me. My high-school friends certainly enjoyed similar types of music. The girl I met at this camp loved all the best bands, though. I mean, she liked oddball groups such as Live, Harvey Danger, and 311. She had this knack for appreciating all the most eclectic groups I knew.

At the time, she lived in the midwestern U.S., which is a long distance from my home in Southern California. As one might imagine, the relationship didn't really work out too well. But I never really forgot her. The repercussions of our meeting still haunt me to this day.

Our relationship built to the point where we were trading music through the mail. We also e-mailed each other for quite a while. Our music tastes slowly changed as I switched to gangster rap. I still remember her saying that she still preferred rock music.

I never forgot how she missed the old styles of rock. Somehow, Battlefield 3 made me think about how she always preferred listening to bands like Pearl Jam. The group's music evokes a rustic feeling that makes me want to live in the mountains. Eddie Vedder's voice always reminds me about my time with my friend from camp.

We're still friends on Facebook, but we don't really say anything to each other anymore. Still, I sometimes feel closer to her than some of my high-school friends. I really think the nature setting and the loud grunge rock brought us together. The Caspian-border map in Battlefield 3 is the perfect wilderness setting for me to blast that old-fashioned grunge music against.

Anyhow, I'm not quite sure how to keep that nostalgic feeling with me. I guess I should move on to other games. For now, I think I'll just keep playing Battlefield 3 to reminisce about all those good old days.


Which games bring back warm, fuzzy memories for you? Feel free to write about them in the comments below.

 
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September 07, 2012

Sorry to ask this, but could someone fix the embeds in this article? It was working for a while, but then it stopped working again. I don't know what happened.

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September 09, 2012

Wow, I didn't expect this (front-page promotion) to happen. Thanks!

(Preemptive strike!)

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September 09, 2012

Gotta hand it to the writer for picking some great music.  =-)  A little Alice In Chains and Tool added to that mix and our 90s experiences parallel... until I moved to England anyhow.  

I remember Sega Genesis, Gabriel Knight (TBW), Day of the Tentacle, Full Throttle, Sam N Max Hit the Road, Return to Zork, Myst, Caesar 2, ...and a lot of MUD games on BBS sites. 

I remember someone called me a "gaming savant" for finishing someone's library of games in one day. 

I don't like to think of things like "the one that got away." There's no earlier save to load and replay. I'm not sure it would be any better if there were, but I have a little girl, and every step and misstep I took brought her into my life. So, there's no going back and a lot less looking back. Having a kid teaches you what love really is... and so much romance of the past fades quickly away.  I still love the music and the games though.

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September 09, 2012

Yeah, I was trying not to think of "the one that got away." That relationship was such a long time ago. After I wrote this, I remembered just how different we were and I'm sort of glad that I didn't try to stick around her. I could also mention her ever-changing wardrobe, but she would get upset if I mention some of her unique outfits. She was very eclectic. Haha.

However, I do think there was a quality to 90s rock that was really special. The guitars had a loud quality that works well for many occasions. Rap is great too, but rock is far more appropriate for violent gun battles. The guitar growls just fit perfectly with the war-torn environments.

Believe it or not, I still play Day of the Tentacle and Sam 'N Max every once in a while. I play all the point-and-click classics with ScummVM emulation. I tried out season one of the new Sam & Max, but it just doesn't have the same charm as the old days. I think I just really love those low-resolution sprites. And I miss Conroy Bumpus.

Oh, and Alice in Chains and Tool are really awesome. I love listening to Tool's "Stinkfist." That song makes me really happy whenever I hear it.

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September 10, 2012

Music has a way of connecting us to memories once forgotten and times long past. Every life has a soundtrack and this just happens to be a part of yours. Thanks for sharing.

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