5 tips for tackling your pile of shame

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Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Chances are, you have one: a growing stack of games -- whether physical or digital -- that you would like to get through. Yet, for some reason, you cannot find the time of day (or month...or year) to get to around to it. You might even feel at times that you no longer even enjoy playing video games. But I would argue that you still do -- you just need to dust off some or your old discs and cartridges first. If navigating through all of the amazing titles we continue to see each year with your limited leisure hours sounds intimidating, never fear. Here are some techniques that are working for me to help you turn the dreaded pile of shame into a pile of triumph.

Pile of Shame

1. Don't let your obsessive-compulsive tendencies compel you to track down every collectible item. Just find what you can on your first playthrough. If you really enjoy the game, then by all means hunt for all 130 of those meaningless trinkets, search every locker, and collect all of those element-fused swords you'll never equip. But recognize that if you never plan to take this title for another spin, these digital goods are pointless (aside from bragging rights) if you don't need them to beat the single-player campaign. Who are you trying to impress by spending dozens and dozens of hours of your life just to get a 100-percent completion rate?

2. Multiplayer in moderation. Hooking up with friends for some online multiplayer after work or class can be a lot of fun. But when you find yourself habitually logging in several hours each night into Gears of Halo 5: Modern Duty, don’t be surprised when you fail to make any progress chipping away at your pile of shame. Try self-imposing a time limit the next time you cozy up with an online shooter -- perhaps by setting an alarm on your phone -- to cut back on the "just one more match" syndrome that can absorb your entire evening. Then, for the second half of your gaming session, dive into something from your back catalog.

 

Adult gaming3. Limit your choices. Supposedly, thanks to some psychological phenomena, having too many choices makes it difficult to be completely happy with any one. I know I used to experience this all of the time when reluctantly skimming through my collection in a DVD binder. Now, I just pick a couple of games I know I'll enjoy (you do read reviews before buying new titles, right?) and just start playing. If it's really that uninteresting, I'll swap it out for another until I find something that can hold my attention for longer than five minutes.

4.Focus on the single-player campaign. Need a metric to determine when you're done with a game and can put it back on the shelf? Try playing until you see some credits roll and then call it a day. In the best interest of time, avoid any bonus levels that have the words "endless" or "survival" in their names.

5. Make a list of games that you've beaten as you complete them. It's like taking the Achievements or Trophies from the Xbox 360 and PlayStation 3 respectively but applying them to titles you play for all systems. I keep a simple text document on my computer of books, movies, and games that I make it through. When something goes down on the list, I add a note of what month I finished it in to track my progress throughout the year. To make things even more rewarding, I come up with my own milestones to determine what I put down. Beating Pokémon's Elite Four and League Champion? That's an entry. Catching them all? If I ever pull it off, that'll be another one.

By following these suggestions, I've found gaming to be more liberating and fulfilling than ever. Is it perverted to sit through a title when the driving factor is adding another name to a "completed" list? Perhaps. But at least I'm having a great time doing it and could not feel better about having to play catch up.

 
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Comments (20)
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June 29, 2011

Backloggery is a good site for that last one.

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June 29, 2011

I've never heard of that site. I'll definitely check it out. Thanks!
 

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June 29, 2011

Awesome stuff... I almost felt alone but to see it written down by someone else really puts it into perspective. How much time have I wasted wondering what to play next. I stare at a pile of games and simply can't make up my mind because I feel like I'm missing out. I still have Bulletstorm, Call of Duty Black Ops, Fallout New Vegas etc. etc. etc.  to get through. You get my point... What has managed to get my attention though is Shadows of the Damned!

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June 29, 2011

I'm glad you could relate. I didn't realize that Shadows of the Damned is out already. What do you think about it? I want to check it out.

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June 29, 2011

I have a ton of games I haven't played yet. What sucks about my habits though, is that I keep going back to replay games I've already finished. It doesn't help that companies squeeze out the occasional HD re-release.

If you know of any technology that can reprogram my brain to get over my need to relive games I've already played a thousand times, I'd appreciate it.

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June 29, 2011

I don't know if such a technology exists yet. I mainly enjoy playing through old SNES games and colorful, quirky titles like Katamari Damacy and Jet Grind Radio.

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June 29, 2011

My pile of shame is ridiculous. I have Steam to blame for it mostly. Haha. Hopefully I can clean that up a bit soon.

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June 29, 2011

Good luck. Anything you plan to work through for 4th of July weekend?

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June 29, 2011

I deifnitely get stuck with #3.. from winning games in different contests, then I have too many options, and somehow my brain just can't settle on which one is most appealing to me :P

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June 30, 2011

I definitely know what that's like! I have to think about a game for a couple of days before I can commit to playing it.

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June 30, 2011

Boo yeah! This is a sweet compendium. I recommend dropping bad games down to easy. Haha I got nothing to prove. Just sometimes when your plowing through back log and you get a hang up it's super frustrating! Good advice Alejandro! Hahah I dod all these things...but SC2 has been eating up all my game time lately

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June 30, 2011

Haha! Thanks, Evan. I'm not so sure about easy mode, though. I usually require myself to at least play on the normal difficulty.

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June 30, 2011

Great read. I should probably put a few of these tips into practice. The progress I've been making on my backlog has been practically zero, and it's killing me. I had also been telling myself for a long while that I would create an Excel document or something to keep track of my game-playing, and your article has inspired me to finally get started. Thanks!

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June 30, 2011

You're welcome! I tried to do an Excel document, but I couldn't figure out how I wanted to organize the collumns. Instead I went with a simple text file and just made lists. Let me know if you come up with something neat.

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June 30, 2011

Some great suggestions there I need to work harder on #1 and #3. For #2 I try to only play co-op. Most times you can kill 2 birds with 1 stone, complete a story mode, and get a little social.

I wish I kept track of my Backlog pre and post discovery of Cheap Ass Gamer, i think it would make for some interesting statistics. CAG truly is the primary cause of my current pile of shame status. Even though I'm supposed to be a Cheap Ass now, I probably spend more on games, only now I get a larger quantity of titles for that amount spent.

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June 30, 2011

I definitely browse CAG, too, but I try to only look when I have a little discretionary money that I feel like putting towards a new game. If I don't have the cash but I see a really good deal, it's hard to resist sometimes. So in those instances, I just won't visit the site. 

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June 30, 2011

I have made a big transition over the last couple of years after getting laid off twice and having an absolute necessity to get my budget straight. My "Pile of Shame" is no longer a pile, but more of a list of semi-shame. I just keep adding titles to a wish list sort of note (and usually to a wish list on Amazon as well) and let them simmer until the time is right to buy and play.

Sure, I've gotten games MONTHS after most other people are done with them, but I wouldn't have played many of them until then anyway, and even buying new at that point can be a fraction of the original cost. Plus, with all of the GOTY editions of things coming out, I usually get a few bonuses as well, all without the visual shame of said pile.

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June 30, 2011

There's nothing wrong with gaming behind the curve! I'm in quite a simillar boat. 

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July 01, 2011

Thank you for this! I tried to list games I needed to play in a spreadsheet once, but the options I listed in there were still too overwhelming! I just forced myself through Dunegon Siege 3, and I can at least feel good that I finished something recently.

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July 01, 2011

I'm glad you can relate. How was Dungeon Siege 3?

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